Unconfident and body

Some personal moments of life are really hard to understand, if you don’t faced this in your life directly. So you can’t understand it, or will be really surprised, when somebody told you about it at first time.

It is like some law of physics: hard, complex, completely real, but you don’t know about it and no need it to your everyday life. But topic about body and confidence is more delicate and complex, because it is connected with self-determination of each person, so it is unique part of life and most of this information is usually hidden even from close friends and relatives.

People who are not confident in themselves can doubt or ashamed even of their body. And the compliments and good words from others do not lift their mood, they think that others are lie or mistaken. On the other hand, they accept bad words in their address about look and body very sensitively, it hurts them much.

So the problem is, that some unconfident persons have negative evaluation of their body, they don’t accept compliments and good evaluation of body from other peoples, and, in addition, accept without doubts all negative evaluations.

Solution

A lot of self-training and personal development courses connected with question of confidence and body (sometimes with both question in same courses). Usually this courses suggest to you some simple decisions, affirmations, slogans and even personal help in some support groups (usually they try also to use you and your resources).

Even Internet articles suggest you some decisions and solutions, sometimes even salvation. In my opinion the answer is in you, and only you can find it. You are both – the source and the seeker in this question, it is self-determination question.

So I just wish you be wise and lucky. Nevertheless, please, remember, that usually we can’t find true answers on all our questions at all.

Author: Evgenii Golygin
Date: 18 August 2018, Saturday